(Closed) Insecurities and dating

posted 7 years ago in Relationships
Post # 3
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814 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

I used to feel that way with my Fiance when we first started dating.  I would over analyze everything if we didn’t talk for a few days or have a next date set up.  The best advice I can give you is to keep living your life.  If you feel like talking to him, then reach out and do it.  At the same time, someone who has their own things going on is really attractive, especially that early on in a relationship. 

Post # 4
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1523 posts
Bumble bee

Just chill!!! It seems like he really does like you, but guys need to be allowed to pursue. If you smother him at first, and guys have different ideas about smothering, then you don’t let him pursue you and it’ll be hard for him to know how he feels about you. Especially at first, guys just need some space. Be sweet, send him occasional messages saying “Good night :)” or something, but just relax. If it’s meant to be, it’ll be. If it’s not, it won’t. If you freak out about it, then you’re setting yourself up for failure. Try to get involved in something to keep your mind off of it from time to time! Get a hobby or something. It’ll help time to go by faster 😉 Be confident! Fake it (confidence) until you are confident. 🙂

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