(Closed) Insecurities of the day – reassure me?

posted 7 years ago in Reception
Post # 3
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: August 2011

This is a celebration of your love! Remember that!

Sometimes I think as brides we got so caught up in the little details and forget to focus on the main aspect. Your love for your soon to be husband.

As long as that is there, I am sure there will not be one worthy complaint!

(and if anyone does complain they suck)

I can’t wait to see a recap πŸ™‚

Post # 4
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: July 2011

I am also presently fearing that our wedding will be boring. I am not sure how to fix this. I’ll be watching this thread. Our situation is a little different than yours, but I also had the same basic concept of eat and mingle. But then I went to a wedding this weekend and it was lovely but kind of boring and I realize mingle only really works when everyone knows each other. Or else some people mingle while others sit around. It sounds like your guest list is small enough that you should be able to pull it off, though.

Post # 5
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

I think your wedding sounds lovely. Dancing is fun, but it isn’t a requirement.

Post # 6
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

You are SOOOO not alone, we’re doing the EXACT SAME THING! I have these exact fears.

My mom & dad & FIL’s keep reassuring me that people will be fine, they will enjoy themselves!!

 

Post # 7
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: June 2011

I think there’s something to be said for people knowing that your wedding is at your mom’s home.  I’m sure nothing has led them to believe that they’re going to a dance off after a 12 course meal… so you’ll be FINE!

Everyone will enjoy the intimacy and casual feel of it, and you’ll get to spend time with people and have a drink and some munchies and it will be fantastic.

Don’t let other people influence your insecurities!!! 

I wanna go, it sounds like such a good time πŸ™‚  I’d stop by but I think I’m busy that day πŸ˜‰

Post # 10
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: July 2011

That’s a great idea! And you totally already have an action plan to overcome the only thing I would be afraid of, so I am sure your wedding is going to be not boring at all! πŸ™‚

Post # 11
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: July 2012

I think your wedding sounds lovely and people will probably remember how much they enjoyed it for being more unique and personal.  I’ve been bored more often at weddings with the whole dancing/games/etc. set up than I have at smaller, more convo focused events.

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