(Closed) Interesting Conversation With My SO

posted 8 years ago in Waiting
Post # 3
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1339 posts
Bumble bee

Yay, you’re getting closer!

My SO thinks all the surprise is taken out if I help pick.  I’m not really happy with that choice but I do understand it.  Hopefully my so’s taste is good hehe!

Post # 4
Member
170 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: September 2010

Congratulations on getting that conversation out of the way!  I know how hard of a step that was for both of you to take.  At least now, you can rest assured that he knows what your expections are and vice versa.  Best of luck and hope if comes soon for you both.

Post # 5
Hostess
18643 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2009

That’s so exciting that you are talking about it that much!

Post # 6
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118 posts
Blushing bee

That’s great! It always feels better to talk about things.  My bf has the same feelings – he doesn’t really want me involved in the whole ring shopping process. He thinks that’s the guy’s job. I think I’ll love whatever he gets me…but as a type A person it’s hard not to give him any input!

Post # 7
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102 posts
Blushing bee

That’s exciting! I remember how exciting it was to be able to tell my boy about the wedding I thought we would have. And he won’t give me a time frame for when the engagement will happen, he just says sometime in the next year. He tried saying a year and a half at first but I was like, nope, that’s not going to work. I want to get married in Fall 2011. I need at least 6 months  to plan a wedding. So he said sometime in the next year and he’s holding firm.

I love having open dialogue, but I always preface it with, “Can I talk about wedding stuff now?” and he goes, “Yes you may.” Then I launch into whatever thing I’ve been obsessing over.

Post # 8
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30 posts
Newbee

This is a huge step. He is more than thinking about marriage with you. Just be patient but feel free to squeal inside with excitement. You sharing your financial goals and dreams for the wedding and engagement must have made him feel less pressure.

Good luck!

Post # 9
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204 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: May 2011

Yey! Awesome Step Forward!!!

Post # 10
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2408 posts
Buzzing bee

awesome step forward! the mister and i had a similar discussion not too long ago and since then, the wedding has been a common topic of conversation. it feels great!

Post # 11
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3587 posts
Sugar bee

That’s great news!! Y’all are so close! Smile

My guy is the same way about the ring.LOL

Post # 12
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384 posts
Helper bee

I personally don’t want to help pick out the ring or be involved.  I want a total surprise!  Although I want it NOW.  LOL!

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