- 6 years ago
hello, Bees. Im happy to share my story here. First of all, Im korean bee, and it has been around a month since I came here-thrid time(visited my So’s place several times). My So and I have decided to get married! ^^at a city hall first. Because my family is in Korea, and my So’s family is in America, here. We just want to be together without living separately anymore, so I came along here and we are going to city hall at least within two or three weeks. We did not decide the exact date to get married at the city hall, but my all family know that we are going to get married already since it is kinda custom in Korea-we talk altogether since they know we are very serious in this relationship and my So mentioned that we were going to get married when he was in Korea with me. I have been through lots of hard things because of conditions. But, we love each other so much, and we are finally in this happy situation. When i came over here again, he showed me and asked me about the ring for the first time. I was the one who always brings up the subject when we both were in Korea.
Anyways, my all documents that I need to get married here. and I am still waiting for his proposal.
he knows that I know we are getting married, but he still wants to propose me with ring first before he announce about the fact to his family. So, I can not tell anybody about this happy news. I have two months left now to stay here, and time goes, but still waiting for the ring.
there was one time that he wanted to let me go when I was here with him, at the time, I had to go back to my country at the time and he was afraid if we could not be at the same place for long time, cause Im not american.
maybe becaue of the experience, I may be afraid a little if he changes his mind. I love him so much, and he does, Im just kinda worried about this not because I do not trust him or somthing like that. just before getting married, getting nervous and you know…waiting for the ring.. kinda natural reponse I guess.
So, ladies, when do you think he will propose me? he said he would soon, but well…still no ring. just want to hear your opinion.