(Closed) Interview tomorrow! Advice and good vibes needed :)

posted 8 years ago in Career
Post # 3
2006 posts
Buzzing bee

I would just be honest with what is going on. If you keep it a “secret” you might not get off on the right foot with you employer. Will it affect if you get the job or not? Maybe, but being upfront and honest is still best.

Just make sure to put a positive spin on it!

Post # 4
3098 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: November 2009

Congrats and good luck! I would just mention you are getting married during the “tell me about yourself” part of the interview and state the dates, etc without asking for it off. They’ll get the hint.

Post # 6
487 posts
Helper bee

Good luck! I agree with Laylabelle though, I am sure they’ll get the hint.  People get married everyday so they’ll know what to do.

Post # 7
711 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

Good luck! I would not bring it up UNLESS they ask “when can you start?” or something similar. Then I would say something like “I am very excited about this position and if I was offered it, I would just need to plan around my upcoming wedding. I can either [insert the plan here = take two weeks off or begin August 16th].”

If they don’t ask, I would just wait until they call to offer the job to you (because of course they WIL!) and then bring it up them. Where I work it takes forever to interview and hire someone, so maybe that’s true there too.

What type of job is it? And good luck again!!!

Post # 8
2204 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

Good luck!!!

I wouldnt bring it up until they start asking either about yourself or the next steps/timeline of when the position is to be filled and the start date.

They should understand… people get married all the time!


Post # 9
1775 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: September 2009

I agree with ktbrady.  Answer honestly when asked.  Assuming you have an engagement ring on, an observant person will realize this.  Other people might have jobs they have to give more notice to, so two weeks isn’t that big of a deal. This isn’t like you’re 8 months pregnant and going to take off two months.

Post # 11
218 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: December 2006

I hate to be the bearer of bad news, but this is exactly why we had to cancel our honeymoon.  Hubs took a new job about a month before our wedding and didn’t get PTO for 6 months.  When he told them he was getting married they told him he couldn’t have time off for a Honeymoon so close to getting hired.  His boss considered it generous to let him have off the Friday before our Saturday wedding.  Fortunately the rehearsal was already scheduled for late, so even if he had not been able to get off it would have been OK.  It’s a very competitive job market right now and unless they point blank ask you when you’re getting married I wouldn’t volunteer the info until you are at the point of discussing start dates, etc. 

Post # 12
39 posts
  • Wedding: October 2010

I definitely wouldn’t mention this until they offered you the position. Even though they aren’t supposed to discriminate for such things, it may play a part in whether or not they hire you if it came down to you and someone who didn’t have a scheduling issue to work around.


Good luck! 🙂

Post # 13
7771 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: July 2010

Just be professional and straightforward.  You will do great!  Good luck!

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