(Closed) Intimacy Question

posted 8 years ago in Intimacy
Post # 3
2562 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: July 2010

I think you might need to really show him what you need – either by requesting that you take control, or by tying him down and forcing him to stay put while you do everything. Show him what you need, and I am sure if he lets go he will be able to climax, if you do that a few times, then he will really understand what you need, and maybe he will be able to do that for you.

Post # 4
18644 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2009

I think you need to take control.  Use positions where you are in charge of the pace and penetration, like girl on top or reverse cowgirl.  If he starts going to fast, lift yourself up so that he is barely inside you.  I think that he just gets caught up in the moment like most guys and probably doesn’t realize that you don’t like it as much to go quickly all the time.

Post # 5
2090 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: August 2010

I agree with both previous posters. Sometimes guys get stuck in what they know, and kind of need to learn a new way, or relearn what they know. Take control, and make him stick to the pace YOU want.

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