(Closed) intimacy

posted 7 years ago in Married Life
Post # 3
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1057 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: December 2010

I would come on to him and see how he reacts. That’s what I do, and if there’s a negative response I ask why he’s been distant. 

Post # 4
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752 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: August 2010 - Ocean View Villas/Jasmine Seafood Restaurant

Sometimes when I’m feeling shy, I just wear something lacy and suggestive and happy to need to run from the bathroom to the bedroom to get something.  I also find that just general flirting helps to reduce the stress and let him start thinking about it as well.

Post # 5
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: June 2011

It does sound like you both have a lot on your plates atm, maybe it is the stress of all the changes.

I would definitely try flirting & initiating more if you are wanting more intimacy– maybe he expects you to be more bold because you are married now? Is it possible that he wants you to come to him rather than vice versa?

 

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