(Closed) Invitation and STD questions

posted 7 years ago in Etiquette
Post # 3
1701 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2010

I sent them to everyone! They will want to cherish them.

Our officiant loved getting it, and called us the ‘love birds’ for the whole time leading up to the wedding because of our invites.   🙂 good memories

Post # 4
369 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: July 2011

Agree.  I sent both Save-The-Date Cards and invitations to our bridal party, parents, and minister.  Close family and friends may want them to keep for scrapbooks…even if they don’t, it still helps to make the wedding more real when you get something formal in the mail. 

Post # 5
941 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

We sent them to everyone we were planning on inviting, including family and wedding party.  It was fun finding out from them when they got them!  🙂  

Post # 6
7587 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: December 2010

You’re suppose to send them. My mother and bff save everything.

Post # 7
2192 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

I am so proud of our Save-The-Date Cards that I am sending them to my sisters, mom, etc.  They are a fun little package to get in the mail and eventhough they helped me put them together I want them to have the fun  of opening one too. Laughing

Post # 8
1696 posts
Bumble bee

You do not actually need to send Save The Date cards to anyone. I prefer the practice of sending a personal note to the really important guests, because “STDs” remind me too much of the advance advertising brochures sent out by the convention industry. But, if you like Save-The-Date Cards, send them to whomever you like: etiquette makes no requirement about whom .

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