(Closed) Invitation Etiquette

posted 6 years ago in Ceremony
Post # 3
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2616 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

not rude.. we are having guest list a and guest list b/// guest list be will get invites proably april or may and hope they respond quicky/. guest list a has been sent the invites today/// guest a consist of family on both sides and friends.. the b list will be coworkers from hubby to be’s job..church members

Post # 3
Member
2616 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

not rude.. we are having guest list a and guest list b/// guest list be will get invites proably april or may and hope they respond quicky/. guest list a has been sent the invites today/// guest a consist of family on both sides and friends.. the b list will be coworkers from hubby to be’s job..church members

Post # 3
Member
2616 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

not rude.. we are having guest list a and guest list b/// guest list be will get invites proably april or may and hope they respond quicky/. guest list a has been sent the invites today/// guest a consist of family on both sides and friends.. the b list will be coworkers from hubby to be’s job..church members

Post # 5
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1643 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: January 2015

I don’t think that is rude, I think that that prepared, sensible planning!!  The last thing you want is a venue capacity of 75 and 100 people saying they would love to attend.  It would be a disaster if you had to start uninviting people closer to the date!  eeek!

Post # 6
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1375 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

Do not do a lists and b lists.  People will know they were second-tier guest choices.  Do not invite more people than your venue can accommodate.  Yes, you will get ‘no’ RSVPs, but what if peoples’ plans change and they call you a week before saying they can come after all?  Will you tell them no?

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