(Closed) Invitation issues with someone else’s wedding

posted 8 years ago in Etiquette
Post # 3
384 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: April 2013

I wouldn’t sweat it if you couldnt make it anyway. And although I wouldnt want to ask why I think I would be interested to know at the same time. haha

Post # 4
5889 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: May 2012

what reason did they give?

Post # 5
6661 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: May 2010

If one of my cousins was getting married and I wasn’t invited I’d be pissed. But I wouldn’t ever ask the cousin, I would have my parents ask the cousins parents.

Post # 6
303 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

Even if you aren’t able to make it, an invitation would be nice. I’m still inviting a friend who is leaving for the Netherlands this weekend to go to school. I know she won’t be able to make it but I’m sure she’d appreciate the fact that I thought of her.

Post # 7
240 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: May 2009

Yeah, I wouldn’t sweat it.  Guest lists are complicated.  For me, my dad has 7 brothers and 3 sisters, so that means I have 24 first cousins from that side of the family alone.  Suffice it to say, we could not invite all of them and their S.O’s to our wedding!

Post # 9
83 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: October 2009

Is it at all possible that it did get lost in the mail?  Some of ours (at least 3) did and we didn’t know until we followed up with people after not getting their RSVP on time.

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