(Closed) Invitation Question

posted 9 years ago in Paper
Post # 3
350 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: July 2009

Not stupid at all!

Personally, I’d do "Frank and Mary Smith" — unless your wedding is super-formal, then I’d go with "Mr. and Mrs. Frank Smith." 

Post # 4
17 posts
  • Wedding: August 2009

what we did is:

 Mr. and Mrs. "joe" and "maria" Smith.


that way, both of their names are listed .

Just a thought!!

Post # 5
2470 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: September 2010

I would just put Mr. and Mrs. Joe Smith. After all, she is Mrs. Joe Smith isn’t she? She will probably open it anyway and if he does and isn’t sure who you are, he’ll leave it on the counter and voila!

Post # 6
1363 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2009

I would do whatever you’re doing on your other invitations.  If other people are being invited as "Mr. and Mrs. Joe Smith" then follow that format.  We opted to list everyone as "Mrs. Jane Smith & Mr. John Smith" so that everyone’s individual name is acknowledged.  I personally really dislike being addressed as Mrs. Joe Smith since my name is not Joe, so I did not want to put other people in that situation too.

Post # 7
497 posts
Helper bee

I would just go with the accepted norm which would be Mr and Mrs Joe Smith.  You never know, that friend might be part of the ettiquette police and you wouldn’t want to confuse her 🙂

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