(Closed) Invitation question!

posted 6 years ago in Names
  • poll: Would you find this wording/gesture offensive if you were part of the brides' family?
    Yes : (0 votes)
    Slightly : (0 votes)
    No, but its weird : (2 votes)
    13 %
    No, not at all. It's great! : (13 votes)
    87 %
  • Post # 3
    Hostess
    18643 posts
    Honey Beekeeper
    • Wedding: June 2009

    I don’t think there is anything weird since you are going to have the same last name after marriage.

    Post # 4
    Member
    598 posts
    Busy bee

    I don’t see what the big deal is. Even if your family were to get offended by it, they’d forget about it in a day or so lol. I think it’s cute! He is the man so you’ll be taking his name anyway. Makes sense for the ‘H’.

    Post # 5
    Member
    1798 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: August 2011

    I don’t find it weird or offensive. The only way I think it could be a problem would be if your family assumed you were changing your name because it’s uncommon in your family.

    Post # 6
    Member
    11356 posts
    Sugar Beekeeper
    • Wedding: May 2009

    I’m not sure I understand. Are you considering NOT using the burlap band and the M+A shown in the first pic and instead using the “h” tags somehow? If so, how would you use it? Would it be fuchsia as it is currently shown?

    Post # 8
    Member
    1318 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: October 2012

    We used W on absolutely every piece of our wedding stationary because it’s his last name (and now mine!). Everyone thought it was really cute. We even had a friend make a huge wooden W we put on the fireplace we got married in front of that now hangs in our house!

    Post # 9
    Member
    11356 posts
    Sugar Beekeeper
    • Wedding: May 2009

    @KellyMarie9713:  Yes. That’s what I thought you were suggesting, but I just wanted to make sure I understood correctly.

    I like the idea of using an “h,” but I love the execution of the current M+A.  In other words, I don’t think I would like the fuchsia “h”  nearly as much as I like the burlap-colored M+A.  However, I think using an “h” in the same style, paper and color as the M+A would be great.

    Post # 11
    Member
    1145 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: December 2011

    I like the style of the m+h for the example shown. It fits more with the burlap( m+h) but I don’t think a single letter looks bad either. Are you using the pink fuchsia with burlap? That could look a little funny IMO.

    Post # 12
    Member
    326 posts
    Helper bee

    I have no problem with the H apart from that what you have done already looks much better. 

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