(Closed) Invite Ceremony Pianist to Rehearsal Dinner?

posted 7 years ago in Etiquette
  • poll: Invite our pianist to the rehearsal dinner?
    Yes : (6 votes)
    67 %
    No : (3 votes)
    33 %
  • Post # 3
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    3978 posts
    Honey bee
    • Wedding: May 2011

    She’s going to be at the actual rehearsal right?

    I guess it depends on the formality and size of the rehearsal sdinner but I invited everyone who was at the rehearsal to the dinner.

    Since she’s involved and you know her well I’d say absolutely.

    Post # 4
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    7174 posts
    Busy Beekeeper

    Yes, I’d invite her.  

    I helped a friend write out her placecards once and was invited to theirs.  It wasn’t necessary, but I appreciated being included.

     

    Post # 5
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    4336 posts
    Honey bee
    • Wedding: October 2011

    Ask her if she thinks it necessary or would like to attend the *rehearsal.* If she says yes, then invite her to the dinner.

    (I’m an organist, and occasionally people ask me if I’m coming to the rehearsal, and I’m like, “no…why would I come to that? That’s for you to practice walking down the aisle! I KNOW what *I’m* supposed to do! I do it all the time!”)

    🙂

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