(Closed) Invite co-workers to shower?

posted 10 years ago in Gifts and Registries
  • poll: Did you or are you planning to invite your co-workers to your bridal shower?



  • Post # 3
    1640 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: August 2010

    Are they invited to the wedding?

    Post # 4
    6377 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: October 2011

    Are they invited to your wedding?

    My shower hostesses invited my co-workers to my shower but I’ve been working with them for 4+ years and we’re also friends. If I had only been at my job for a few months, I probably wouldn’t have extended an invite to my shower. 

    Post # 5
    2001 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: April 2010

    Only if they are invited to the wedding.

    It’s okay to have a workplace shower (at work, only includes co-workers) without inviting co-workers to the wedding, but that is the only exception to the rule that shower guests must be a subset of the wedding guests.

    Post # 6
    4831 posts
    Honey bee
    • Wedding: September 2011

    They should only be invited to the shower if they are invited to the wedding.


    Post # 7
    487 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: October 2011

    Ditto to the comments re: are they invited to the wedding.

    For reference, my Fiance and I only invited coworkers who we spend time with outside of the office to our wedding.

    Post # 8
    911 posts
    Busy bee

    I’ve invited my ex-coworkers (I quit in March but we’ve kept in contact and were all pretty close) to the wedding and therefore am inviting them to the shower.

    Ditto to other comments, only invite them to the shower if they are invited to the wedding.

    Post # 9
    635 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: December 2011

    @sailor: I agree, usually there is a seperate wedding-work-shower

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