Post # 1
Ok, I’m trying to decide if I should invite a few co-workers. The thing is that we are having a small wedding but my fiancee is a cop and he feels like he HAD to invite his superiors. I’m a teacher and I’m wondering if I really have to invite my principal and/or assistant principal.
What do you think?
Post # 3
Are you close to them? Do you tell them non-work related things? Have you ever hung out outside of the office? If they were getting married, would you feel hurt if you weren’t invited?
Its a sticky situation. My Boyfriend and I work together, which means I’m afraid we’ll end up inviting everyone we weork with (about 20 people). I really don’t want to have to pay for all that extra food and booze!
Post # 4
If you don’t want to invite them, don’t. He probably works closer with his superiors anyhow.
It’s your wedding, do as you wish! It is impossible to make everyone happy, and even if your coworkers that you’re inviting (if any) met his coworkers, I doubt they would go running to your principals and be like, "OMG! They invited HIS bosses…" 🙂
Post # 5
I think CHK hit the nail on the head with those questions. I am sure you will figure it out!
I am inviting co-workers but I am close to them (including my boss). I am happy to have them at our wedding.