- 10 years ago
- Wedding: October 2012
Okay long story and I’l try and cover it all quickly.
My Mum doesn’t speak to her sisters they had a falling out in 2001. Ove something trivial that turned into world war 3.My Uncle became violent with my Mum and my Dad pinned him against a wall to stop him hitting Mum over a broken bowl. My Uncle has a terminal illness called Scleroderma, this affects his blood flow and casues him to have an erratic behaviour on occasions.
They rarely speak and its only if they really need to. Yesterday my Mum gets a call from her younger sister that she is having some tests done on her heart and wanted to let Mum know incase something goes wrong. That my Uncle will call her. I think she just really wanted a sisterly ear.
Now Mum want me to do the right thing and invite her to my wedding which is already at capacity but says she won’t come anyway. I used to get along well with my Aunt and over the last 3 years she has not contacted me although I reguarily send her emails.
Should I invite her? Or should I just let it be?
It will be three extra people (Both my Aunts and my Uncle) I’d rather fit in some more friends and both my Aunts will need to travel from Sydney and Rockhampton both a few hours flight? What should I do???
PS – I’m in Australia 😛