- 6 years ago
Hello all, you were so helpful with my last question that I hope you can help me again. I really appreciate all the advice!!
Ps. I know inviting kids is a touchy subject, so I am not trying to say anything negative about inviting children.
I have a long time friend, who started off as my teacher in middle school, then was my manager at my first job!! I was planning on inviting her, her husband, their adopted son. (We were orginally going to do no kids, but he’s such an adorable little guy, we decided to have him be the only kid). Today via facebook status I saw that they now also have at least 2 foster children living with them. We already have a list of 60 close family and friends who have already said that they are all wanting to come. (We’ve also left out some friends, and purchased chair sashes, favors, etc, for 60 people.) I was getting my invitations ready to mail out soon, and was unsure of how to proceed. I don’t want to make them feel weird that I left out their foster kids, but I also do not really want to have random kids running around at our wedding when we had to leave out friends. Should we just do an adults only wedding? And if you do suggest that we add all of the kids, what if they accept more kids to foster in the next 4 months?
How would you proceed?
Thank you 🙂