(Closed) Invite FI’s high school friend?

posted 8 years ago in Etiquette
Post # 3
5823 posts
Bee Keeper

Negative.  One invite does not equal another.  If she wasn’t on your list in the first place, you had good reason.  And you aren’t obligated to accept her invitation either.

Post # 4
2289 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: November 2010

I agree with MightySapphire. And it’s very likely that she has a completly different budget than yours if she’s able to invite someone from high school that she hasn’t kept in touch with.

Post # 5
4001 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: June 2010

Awkward.  But I still wouldn’t invite her.  He’s not even that close to her.  The fact that she’s inviting him is strange.

Post # 6
523 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2010

If you have the budget to invite her (& a possible guest), then I think its ok. Sometimes friends lose touch but they still mean something. Why make it a big deal?

If your guest counts needs to stay low then, ok..don’t invite her.

Either way you’re not obligated to attend her wedding.

Post # 7
63 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

You definitely aren’t obligated to. Maybe her family has tons of money and is paying for a large wedding so she’s inviting lots of people even though she might not be close to them anymore? But that is obviously a rare occurrence so I don’t think she would just expect that you guys could invite anyone and everyone too so I wouldn’t worry about not inviting her.

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