(Closed) invite old flaky friend?

posted 7 years ago in Etiquette
  • poll: Should I invite her?
    Yes : (11 votes)
    61 %
    No : (7 votes)
    39 %
  • Post # 3
    1773 posts
    Buzzing bee

    I say invite her.


    She can choose to tick yes or no.


    Leave it up to her.

    Post # 4
    226 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: May 2013

    @Monkey786:  I’m going through the same thing 🙁 I know exactly how you feel!!!!

    Except with mine we’ve been childhood friends since we were 9 years old and she was a compulsive dater and I was the single one keeping my options open…even dated her brother which she didn’t like so I broke things off with him.

    I started dating one of my best guy friends and we completely fell in love. 

    We’re engaged now and she told me she doesn’t like the “new me” and wants things to go back to normal. The most I’ve changed is that I put my fiance first but hello he’s going to be my husband and she lives 300 miles away.

    It’s always been about her and it hurts me that she can’t be happy for me. My family thinks the same way as yours-that she’s jealous because I’m so happy. When we got engaged…she called me 4 days later asking if she was going to be my Maid/Matron of Honor. So rude. We’ve grown up together and our parents are best friends so there’s no way she won’t be coming to the wedding. It hurts me thinking that the person I thought would’ve been most happy for me…truly isn’t.

    Post # 6
    2401 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: September 2013

    Have you seen her in person within your engagement? Was that time even remotely meaningful (more than just a “hi, how are you doing?”). If so, then invite her. If not, then cut her.

    Post # 8
    6247 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: August 1900

    Invite her, that way you have no regrets.  The ball will be in her court, and the decision to attend or not will be hers.  You will be so busy on your wedding day that you might not even realize that she isn’t there.

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