Post # 1
Here is the problem I currently have. All my side is ready to be mailed, for my family and friends. I have about 15% of my Fi’s side done. He and his mom are still working at addresses (at their own pace). ABout 70% of my guestlist is coming from out of town and I’d like to get my invites out as quick as possible for our November wedding. Do you think its wrong to mail the ones I have completed out now?
Post # 2
I don’t know about the actual etiquette here, but could you give your Fiance and his mom a due date for the addresses and let them know that invitations will be sent out the next day? Let them know it may be awkward for their friends/relatives if some of them get the invitation much sooner than others. They might assume they’re either not getting an invitation or are being B listed when their invitation does finally arrive.
Post # 3
Do the people on your guestlist know the people on his? If they are totally separate, then I say send yours. If they overlap then I would say hold off so people don’t think they are on the B-list.
Did you send STDs? If so then don’t worry about it. Did your STDs have your wedding website with accomodation info? If they have not gotten any accomodation info, you could always email your guests and say “We will be sending your formal invitation soon but I wanted you to have this information so you will have plenty of time to make travel plans”.