Post # 16
samael : Thank you for your advice and perspective! It is hard to know what her reaction will be, but I have decided to invite her and her husband because I agree with you that it would be worse to purposely exclude her because of their circumstances.
Post # 17
gwenchilada : I would extend the invitation. If she is your friend she will want to be included in your happiness and if she isn’t feeling up to it will politely decline.