(Closed) Invite to bach party but not to wedding?

posted 4 years ago in Etiquette
  • poll: Invite or no?
    Yes : (2 votes)
    6 %
    No : (31 votes)
    89 %
    Other - explain below : (2 votes)
    6 %
  • Post # 3
    3290 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: January 2014

    Well, I think it depends on how small your wedding is. Ours is immediately family only, so I think FI might do a small bachelor party with friends who won’t be invited–since NO friends will be invited, I think it’s not offensive (I hope!). But if you’re inviting, say, 10 friends to the wedding, and wanting to invite 10 more to the bachelor party, I could see how people might be offended, especially since people typically spend $$ for the groom at that event.

    Post # 4
    298 posts
    Helper bee

    No, it’s not acceptable. You can’t invite people to pre-wedding events if they aren’t invited to the wedding. Please don’t do it, it’s very rude.

    Post # 5
    164 posts
    Blushing bee
    • Wedding: March 2014

    I voted No. Any one who attends these parties usually throws down $$ for the groom. Having to spend money on the groom and not be invited to the wedding would be considered rude. 

    Post # 6
    4743 posts
    Honey bee
    • Wedding: June 2014

    No.  Please only invite people to the pre-wedding festivities who are also invited to the wedding.    

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