(Closed) Invitee Got Married and Didn’t Tell Me

posted 6 years ago in Etiquette
Post # 3
1077 posts
Bumble bee

@DrRoberta:  I don’t think she doesn’t want to come, it just sounds like her wedding was pretty hastily thrown together. Maybe she was surprised at how sudden it was and didn’t want you to feel required to travel at the last minute? It sounds like you don’t know the full story yet, so I would wait until you heard more.

I would e-mail her with a congratulations, and inquire about the wedding and how it went. Once you get her response I would decide then.

Post # 4
3266 posts
Sugar bee

Send her the invitation.  You have no reason to think she won’t want to come.  She may have had a very different wedding then you, and wasn’t able to invite you or didn’t want to have you to travel on short notice.

I would send her a lovely card of congratulations, and possibly a gift, and tell her you can’t wait to celelbrate with her at your wedding.



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