(Closed) Invites for those who already RSVP’d no

posted 8 years ago in Paper
Post # 3
5797 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: May 2011

You should definitely send them invites as a courtesy

Post # 4
1739 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: July 2010

i have a similar situation and we decided to still give them invitation. i want to make them feel part of it and to show them that we still have hope to have their presence in our wedding.

but at the end it will be your decision 

Post # 5
549 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2010

I’m really interested in the same thing.. lots of family in Australia, and if they are saying they can’t make it, they definitely can’t… curious what other people say too??

Post # 6
9053 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2010

I’m going to say we typically still sent people an invitation even if they’d said they couldn’t previously.  The one person we didn’t, we’d kind of heard was a no, and were going to send him an invite, but when I emailed him to ask for his address, he told me directly not to bother as he wasn’t going to be able to make it, and didn’t provide his address.  That particular day I didn’t feel like writing back and being like… oh, well we’d still like to send you an invite to make you feel included! kind of thing, so I just left it at that.

Post # 7
762 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: July 2010

My cousin who lives out of state is preggers and is due the week of the wedding so she obviously can’t make it. I just sent her an e-mail saying that I know she can’t come and she will be missed but congrats and we are so excited for her. I thought that was okay as she might get bummed when she gets the invite and can’t go.

When I was preggers we got an invite to a friends wedding and assumed we did not need to rsvp no because when he called for our address we told him we couldn’t. Same situation, out of state and the day before my due date. He called and said we didn’t get your rsvp. my FH was like yeah… i told you she’s due the day after. his response was, well you can still come right? Um no!

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