- 6 years ago
- Wedding: September 2012
I’m having a small wedding and an equally small shower (appx 20 people). from my side, the ladies equal 13 and from FI’s side, it’s about 5. The five ladies from his side will only include the women from his father’s side b/c maternal side is Out of Town. I’ve met 4 of the women (includes g-ma, aunt, and aunt-in-law) from the father’s side and haven’t met one aunt. The issue is that I kinda only want to invite the aunt I haven’t met b/c she’s the only one that Fiance loves. The other ladies did not accept him until a few years back b/c his mother is black and his father is jewish. His Jewish family except one treated Fiance, his brother, and his mother like sh!t and I don’t think he’s ever forgiven them. I know that if I invite one, I have to invite all to wedding and shower. Should I just not invite his side? or suck it up?