(Closed) Invites…when should I sent them?

posted 7 years ago in Paper
  • poll: When should I send my invites?
    Send them mid-April. People won't lose them! : (6 votes)
    19 %
    Send them mid-May. Having two invitations out at the same time is fine. : (25 votes)
    81 %
    Who cares?? : (0 votes)
  • Post # 3
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    1506 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: July 2011

    I said send them in May. I think two invited at a time will call more attention to your event and get people really excited about the festivities. I’m getting married July 09th and we’re sending out the invites the first week of May too.

    Post # 4
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    1161 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: March 2011

    Unless most of your guests are from far Out of Town, I’d wait until May.

    Post # 5
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    7587 posts
    Bumble Beekeeper
    • Wedding: December 2010

    I picked May. My sister sent my bridal shower invitations 3 days after I sent my wedding invitations out. My shower was 6 weeks before the wedding. So essentially we have the same time line. I think when you sent them too early they just get pushed to the side and you won’t get rsvp cards back in a timely manner.

    Post # 7
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    3049 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: January 1991

    We are date twins!! I’m sending out my invites mid-May or the end of May (whichever my mom chooses). And RSVPs should be received by June 30th. April seems to early to me, I think people will forget! I got an invitation two weeks ago for an April wedding and I’ve forgotten about it twice already! Finally heading to the mailbox now to send my RSVP 🙂

    Post # 9
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    3709 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: May 2011

    I chose mid-May. If you aren’t having a whole lot of out of town guests, you could send them out even later. I think 6 to 8 weeks prior to the date is plenty of time. 

    Post # 10
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    2154 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: July 2011

    Date twin! Anyway, we’re sending them out at the beginning of May (that’s the plan, anyway). But we already sent out Save-The-Date Cards several months ago, so that might affect your calculations as well.

    Post # 11
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    762 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: October 2011

    I would send them in May.

    Post # 12
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    591 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: July 2011

    Our big days are pretty close to each other. Here is what I’m doing. My shower is May 15, and we’re planning to send the wedding invitations about the second week of May and asking for replies by June 25. I think May would be perfect for you! 🙂

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