(Closed) Inviting a crush to a wedding….I am the bridesmaid!

posted 13 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 17
2639 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: November 1999

I would check with the bride, not the groom’s mother if you could bring a date.  It’s not her wedding to be telling you if you can invite someone.  If it were my wedding and you were my Bridesmaid or Best Man, though, I would probably tell you to leave the friend at home because you’ll be focused on Bridesmaid or Best Man duties and honestly I wouldn’t want to pay for your guest’s plate since it’s just a friend.  Weddings are different than normal parties, so you can’t really bring whoever you want.

Post # 19
1076 posts
Bumble bee

I am sorry…did you say that this man attempted to have sex with you while you were passed out or completely intoxicated.  If this is the case, I would probably leave him alone and run far far away from him.  Or umm call the police.  I don’t mean to make light of the situation but it seems super shady.

Post # 20
474 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2010

but apparently we did not have sex…..he tried(thats what he said) but couldnt cozz im a virgin

umm were you passed out when he tried?

Post # 21
1652 posts
Bumble bee

That is a bit strange.  On a less creepy side… Were you maybe just drunk (and therefore can’t remember)?  But that you two were kissing and what not, when he decided that he couldn’t take advantage of a virgin while she was drunk?  If you weren’t a virgin would he have had no problem?

I can’t say I know what to make of it.  You said you talked to him about it once.  Did everything seemed to get worked out?  I think if you were having an intimate conversation about having sex, or why you didn’t, you could take a turn to talk about how you two feel about each other.  Maybe he still feels awkward or embarrassed about the night at the hotel?  Is it possible he did some things (since you don’t have any memory) that he’s not admitting to? (Like touching or looking at things he shouldn’t have been?)


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