(Closed) Inviting co-worker?

posted 6 years ago in Etiquette
Post # 3
7561 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: January 2013

I think it’s fair to invite just one co-worker if there’s an obviously different relationship. (i.e. you’re not just coworkers, your his girlfriend’s friend.) 

Post # 5
141 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: September 2013

I’d invite them. Obviously you send the invitation to their home as opposed to deliver it to work.

My immediate supervisor is my Maid/Matron of Honor.  I will also invite my big boss & his wife (they are like grandparents to us) and perhaps 1 or 2 other coworkers.  Though I work in a relatively small office (~10 people) i don’t feel the need to invite them all.  

Post # 6
808 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2014

I think it is only bad if you invited half your co-workers and not the other half…I’m sure it will be fine. If you are worried about it, have a quiet word to your friends boyfriend and just ask him to say that you invited his gilfriend and he is just tagging along.

Post # 8
1092 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

Agree with PP’s- if you have no relationship outside of work with any co-workers, and you invite 3 and don’t invite another 3, that could be a problem. But if you make your choices based specifically on people you do and don’t have a relationship with outside of work, that’s a legit deciding factor. I only have a relationship with one co-worker outside of work- she’s been one of my best friends for five years.  None of my other co-workers are invited, but she’s in the wedding. Everyone understands just fine.

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