(Closed) Inviting co-workers?

posted 6 years ago in Etiquette
Post # 3
1433 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2012 - Historic Lougheed House

Since your wedding is so far away, I’d refrain from making a final decision on this right away. 

Personally, I invited the coworkers and bosses I am closest to and their spouses. 

Post # 4
190 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

I would invite only those you have a relationship with outside work; that’s what I did. Our NFP employs over 8,000 so that wasn’t an option.

I invited almost everyone in the local office but we’re like a family; we go to each other’s houses, have a group lunch every Friday and celebrate every single milestones in the others’ lives. I didn’t invite about 5 because I didn’t have an outside of work relationship with them – I would like to think they understood.

Post # 5
1015 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

I would say this depends on your budget. If you can afford it, it would be so easy to include everyone, but if you can’t, just stick to those you’re closest to.

Post # 6
4464 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: February 2012

I work in a small program with a little over a dozen women. I only invited the woman who I work with 8 hours a day, 5 days a week, pretty much one-on-one in the same classroom because the nature of my relationship with her is completely different than with any other co-worker in this program. There are other women I am closer to but I knew that if I opened it up to anyone else not in this one co-worker’s position then I would have to do all or none. Picking and choosing can get a little tricky in the workplace. 

Post # 7
583 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

 i agree with PP i have worked with my co-workers for 2 years and iv known most of them since i was 2 years old. my mom has worked  at the jail we work at since i was born! lol so we invited over 80 people from our work hahah ridiculous i know but just wait to see u have awhile!

Post # 8
242 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

I work in a small office and by the time of the wedding, will have been there for over a year, so I was wondering whether I should invite anyone or not. What really solidified my decision was that I realized that I do not socialize with anyone outside of work, so I am not planning to invite them to my wedding. I would suggest either inviting everyone or inviting just the few people you are closest to, but either way, don’t lock yourself in yet. You can always decide to invite them later. πŸ™‚

Best wishes with your interview!

Post # 9
811 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: April 2014

I can’t stand most of my co-workers, but since I am inviting some of the people on my office, I feel obligated to invite them all.

Post # 11
914 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: July 2012

I’d say wait a bit too and only invite the ones you’re closer with.


I avoided this dilemma by quitting my job! Haha! Ok, it’s not really why I quit, but now I don’t have to invite anyone  and it won’t be awkward. πŸ˜›

Post # 12
3569 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: April 2013

I say wait closer to the date. I am only inviting those coworkers who I consider friends and one who I who I consdier a mentor and a great boss.

Post # 13
529 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: April 2013

@iheartsquishy:  Haha, that’s my answer to everything work related. It can’t be awkward if I just quit!

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