Inviting Colleagues?

posted 2 weeks ago in Weddingbee
Post # 2
Member
3600 posts
Sugar bee

So don’t invite them.  It’s not as big of a deal as you are making it.  Most people aren’t just falling all over themselves for invitations or are really that invested, particularly coworkers and particularly for weddings five hours away.  Unless you guys are like BFFs constantly hanging outside of work, they likely aren’t expecting it.  

However, also stop talking about your wedding at work or provide minimal details when asked.

Post # 3
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28 posts
Newbee
  • Wedding: November 2019

It’s your wedding, so who you invite is totally your choice. I likely won’t be inviting most of my co-workers either. If they are irked to not be invited, you can explain that you’re inviting very close friends and family only. They’ll get over it. 

Post # 4
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5303 posts
Bee Keeper

I invited my bosses, but no other colleagues. They enjoyed it and I’m glad they came, but we’re pretty close knit. If you don’t want to invite them I think that’s fine. You should also consider the distance – 5 hours is pretty far so you could invite them and they still might not show up too.

Post # 5
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676 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2015

i wouldnt invite them. keep business as usual and keeping family separate for this one day

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