Post # 1
So I am not sure of how this works. I use to work in a small bank (left in 2006) and have two people that I would like to invite from their. However, it is a very small office and it would only leave 3 or 4 other ex-coworkers uninvted. However, I don’t really ever talk to these people.
The question is do I need to invite all of them or since I no longer work with them is it ok just to invite the two that I feel closer with.
As a side note my Aunt invited all of them to my bridal shower that she through me. However, none of them gave or sent anything. Does this make a difference?
Post # 3
since they were all invited to the shower, i think you need to invite all of them to the wedding. ordinarily i would have said just invite the 2 you’re close to, and let them know that not all of your former co-workers were invited so they don’t blab it around the office.
are they in MI? my guess is they’ll decline if they aren’t that close to you!
Post # 4
Since they were invited to the shower, you should invite them to the wedding. Since you are getting married so far away, they prob will not come anyways.
Post # 5
@kitzy and tksjewelry: They are all in New Orleans. I just moved up to MI this summer. I have a feeling that the other few wont end up coming to the wedding anyways.
I had figured that since my Aunt invited them without asking me that I should invite them to the wedding….NOT to self ask the bride who she wants invited to a shower. She also invited a few other people not on my guest list and I ended up adding them.