(Closed) Inviting fiance's close female friends to bachelorette party?

posted 5 years ago in Parties
Post # 3
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6015 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: March 2012

Yeah invite her.  It’s a party the more the merrier.  It would be different if you two did NOT get along.  You should probably invite the other friend of his also.  It will be something you guys can bond over. 

Post # 4
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3264 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: September 2013

I don’t see why not! If you like her and have no reason not to trust her, hey the more the merrier!  I expect my fiance to invite my male friends and relatives to his outing

Post # 7
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1589 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: March 2014

It can’t hurt. I have two male best friends who are like brothers to me. I’m starting to wish I was better friends with one friend’s wife than I am with him. Over time, friends wife and I seem to have more in common. 

 

Post # 8
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361 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2013

Hey! I just posted a semi-similar, but not really post! πŸ™‚ I am leaning towards inviting more.. the more the merrier!

Post # 9
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7719 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

I’m guessing this is more or less equivalent to whether you’d ask his sister to the party. I actually didn’t, but a lot of people do.

Post # 10
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847 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: December 2015

@lovemyrussianpooza:  Invite her, like you said you want to be on good terms with her and nothing says ‘I resent your friendship with my significant other!’ like being casually disinvited from a bachelorette party. You’ll have a hard time getting closer to her if there’s all of these hurt feelings and awkward moments because of how you brushed her off. Maybe asking about the bach party was her way of reaching out? It’d be a shame if you guys missed out on the sacred bond that is forged in between drinking vodka through penis straws and accidentally cutting off your own circulation with a feather boa. Doooooo iiiiiiiiit. 

Post # 12
Hostess
3572 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: June 2011

Yes. She’s important to your fiance, and she’s not going anywhere. It sounds like she’s just generally happy for you and excited about the wedding. Definitely invite her, it might give you a great opportunity to become better friends.

Post # 13
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6742 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: June 2014

Half my friend’s bachelorette party was her FI’s very close female friends – the party was A BLAST and they were the ones who stayed out the longest!  I think it’s totally normal.  Do it. 

Post # 14
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1041 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2013

@paula1248:  +1

I wouldn’t.  But that’s just my opinion.  My bachelorette party is for me.  If they’re close friends of FI’s then he should invite them to his bachelor party, not impose on my bachelorette party!

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