(Closed) Inviting friends we don’t both like

posted 7 years ago in Grooms/men
Post # 3
2699 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

@non nocere:

I think you need to work out who is making the greater compromise here. If your Fiance thinks they are important enough in his life that he really wants them in his wedding celebrations, then you may have to compromise and let them come. Unless they have a history of causing problems at events and you think it’s likely they might cause a scene, then maybe you should let them come. If you just don’t like the stories they tell / that they get a little rowdy when drunk it might not be a good enough reason to tell your Fiance they can’t come…..sorry!!

Nonetheless your Fiance should respect your opinion and if you feel very strongly that they may ruin your celebrations, then you need to sit him down and explain exactly how you feel. He may then be able to put your concerns about these guests before his desire to invite them.

Hope this helps a little!


Post # 4
143 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: January 2013

What did you end up doing? I’m curious because my Fiance has a friend that makes me uncomfortable every time she is around. I won’t drag out the long story, but she is very passive-aggressive towards me and he doesn’t see it. I would rather her not even be invited but am compromising because he says he values their friendship. And as a result, I’m nervous about it. 

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