- 8 years ago
- Wedding: June 2010
I got engaged late in 2009 and wrote emails to some close and old friends to tell them our plans for a wedding in summer 2010. One friend was excited for us and told us she would definitely come to the wedding, etc etc. Well, I just found out that she is also getting married this month, but she didn’t tell me, and obviously I didn’t get an invitation. I don’t know any details, other than one of our mutual friends is in attendance.
We have been friends through high school and college, but have not been able to get together as much in the past few years, although I often try to get in contact when we’re in the same city. I can’t help but feel a bit hurt, not so much for the lack of invitation, but that she didn’t even mention her plans in our email exchanges! it’s possible that she is having a small wedding, etc, but I’m sad that she didn’t even tell me about it. I just sent out my own invitations prior to hearing about this and now feel a bit akward having invited her to my own wedding when the thought wasn’t reciprocated…. Any advice? Has this friendship sailed?