(Closed) Inviting Grown Children??

posted 7 years ago in Etiquette
Post # 3
1562 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: November 2011

Can you swing it in your guest list count?  I would try to, just to keep the peace.

Post # 4
1577 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

I think if you’re sticking to formal etiquette, you should invite her (and send her her own invitation): her whole family is going to be there, and talking about it before and after, don’t leave her out.

Particularly if she’s younger, and you’ve tutored her in the past, she may really look up to you.

Inviting her may not make a difference to your day, but it could mean a lot to her.

Post # 6
2854 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

I would try to squeeze her onto the list. You’re going to have some “no’s” so hopefully it’ll balance..

I feel your pain, though.

Post # 7
875 posts
Busy bee

I’d squeeze in the bridesmaid’s sibling if at all possible, but I wouldn’t worry about a second invitation.  I know that it would be more proper to do so, but I don’t think the added expenditure is completely necessary. 


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