(Closed) Inviting issues

posted 8 years ago in Etiquette
Post # 3
5823 posts
Bee Keeper

Etiquette says that you do not invite people to the shower who you will not be inviting to your wedding.  That is because they are buying you a gift, and the expectation is that they will be repaid as a guest with a meal and a favor.

Post # 4
289 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2009

Okay…my opinion is that people not invited to wedding should not be invited to shower. now, my co-workers threw me a seperate shower on their own so maybe these girls will do the same.  In regards to your fiance’s girlfriends or wives–I don’t think they need to be invited. Are you planning your own shower and sending out your own invites??  I think the shower is typically just for closest female guests and thats it.

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