(Closed) Inviting People to Bachelorette Who Aren't Invited to Wedding?

posted 4 years ago in Etiquette
Post # 3
1710 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: May 2013 - Walt Disney World

I think the general rule is to not extend invitations for pre-wedding functions to people who aren’t invited to the wedding.  A possible exception would possibly be a group of co-workers who are throwing you a bridal luncheon or something.

Post # 4
7106 posts
Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2013

@soupmachine:  No they shouldn’t be invited. I was invited to an acquaintance’s bachelorette party and wasn’t invited to the wedding (even though it was a large wedding). I accepted before I realized I wasn’t invted to the wedding and it was a bit awkward.

Post # 6
8637 posts
Bumble Beekeeper

Echoing pp to say that it would not be polite to invite to one and not the other. I also agree about the exception.  A group of  co-workers can  host a shower  with no expectation of an invitation.

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