Post # 1
My Maid/Matron of Honor is hosting a fantasia party bachelorette for me at a sex shop in my hometown. It’s gonna be a hilarious good time. I’m wondering though, would it be appropriate to invite some girls who aren’t coming to the wedding, but who are acquaintances? I think they’d have fun but don’t want them to feel awkward…
Post # 3
- Wedding: May 2013 - Walt Disney World
I think the general rule is to not extend invitations for pre-wedding functions to people who aren’t invited to the wedding. A possible exception would possibly be a group of co-workers who are throwing you a bridal luncheon or something.
Post # 4
@soupmachine: No they shouldn’t be invited. I was invited to an acquaintance’s bachelorette party and wasn’t invited to the wedding (even though it was a large wedding). I accepted before I realized I wasn’t invted to the wedding and it was a bit awkward.
Post # 5
ok, thanks for the heads up! glad i asked.
Post # 6
Echoing pp to say that it would not be polite to invite to one and not the other. I also agree about the exception. A group of co-workers can host a shower with no expectation of an invitation.