(Closed) Inviting someone I don’t want to?!

posted 11 years ago in Etiquette
Post # 17
1509 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2010

If you are going to be making a line, make the line at spouses and those engaged to be married, since they are virtually the same thing.  Just because a girl isn’t actually married to him yet, doesn’t mean that their commitment to each other is any less than that of a married couple.

I’m not trying to say that you are a rude person by any means, I just think that if you are going to be inviting spouses, you should invite this girl even though you don’t care for her. I know how stressful the guest list is.  We all have people on there we wish we didn’t have to invite, but invite to make our fiance happy.  Don’t worry, at the end of the day, you won’t even notice whether or not she is even there.  You never know, maybe inviting her and having her share that special day with you and your fiance will improve your relationship with her.

Also, don’t be afraid to tell your bartender (discreetly) to cut her off if she is getting out of control. 

Post # 18
153 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: January 2011


Post # 19
3124 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: December 2009

you must invite her, sorry. but on the plus side, you will not notice her on your wedding day – you have bigger things to worry about. And if you do, what the heck, tell her to be quiet.  you can always blame wedding stress after the fact, haha

Post # 21
3162 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: July 2010

Well I highly doubt she will be able to be the center of attention at someone else’s wedding! And if she tries, I’m sure one of your girls will put her in her place.

Post # 22
2467 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: August 2010

it sounds like she’d cause more drama if she wasn’t invited than if she came…i think that if you invite her fiance, you have to invite her

Post # 23
652 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: July 2009

i think its pretty hard to invite one and not the other. i had to invite people who i didn’t really want to and at the end of it day, it didn’t really matter because 1. i didnt see or even notice them 2. them being there did not really affect me either way

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