- hickoryhills
- 2 years ago
- Wedding: November 2019 - City, State
Don’t feel obligated or guilted into inviting her. There are some situations in which etiquette is unhelpful and need not apply.
Don’t feel obligated or guilted into inviting her. There are some situations in which etiquette is unhelpful and need not apply.
I would not invite her! Specially if she’s going to try and make it all about her
I wouldn’t. Cheating is one of the worst things you can do in my book. The bridal shower is for you, the bride. Your FFIL’s mistress seems to be a drama queen, and she’s not your (the bride) friend.
Hell. No. No fucking way. I’d keep her away from the wedding as well. But I’m bitchy like that.
When someone steps outside their marriage with infidelity, their feelings become irrelevant. Your mom is wrong, and I wouldn’t give a damn if it is pissed Father-In-Law off or not. He should have thought of these things while screwing around.
I thought I posted already. But, no you do not have to invite her to your bridal shower. In fact I wouldn’t I think it could ruin the shower for you. Like otgers have said, actions have consequences. They should have thought it through before cheating.
I really don’t think you need to invite her. I would definitely make Future Mother-In-Law the higher priority.
If you are really concerned, maybe have a direct chat with Future Mother-In-Law about it? Tell her you feel like etiquette says you have to invite the FFILs fiance but that you don’t really want to and that if it would make her even a little bit uncomfortable that you won’t. It’ll show how much you value her and care about her feelings.