Post # 1
Anyone have any strange fears or worries about things that could go wrong for your wedding, even if there is nothing to lead you to believe it will happen?
My irrational fear is that my dress won’t fit when it comes in. There is no reason for this, as I have not gained or lost weight since ordering it and I have a receipt with my measurements so I know it was ordered correctly. But for some reason I just have the weirdest feeling it won’t fit!
Post # 3
I have this awful fear that someone close to us is going to die before the wedding.
Post # 4
@GroovyHippieChick: This is very possible for us as my Grandfather just went into intensive care.
Irrationally, I’m concerned that no one is going to RSVP yes or just won’t show up.
Post # 5
@aliavenue: oh no! That’s sad news. I hope everything turns out okay!
Post # 6
I didn’t even think about this until this weekend, and wish I would have before I picked my date…but my first anniversary will be on Friday the 13th. I’m not superstitious at at all but for some reason this has me worried
Post # 7
My irrational fear is that we wont get anything off the registry – I have spent alot of time creating it, and we really do need alot, but Im afraid that it will all be for waste, and that we won’t get anything but complaints about the cash bar.
Post # 8
I am worried that the day will come and nothing will be ready: no food, decorations or guests. This fear is pretty real since we don’t have anything checked off our list (we don’t even really have a list..YIKES)
@Kjeff760: I think that makes for a great party/date night theme. You two could play it up and have some fun instead!
@aliavenue: I feel for you.
Post # 9
I’m so afraid I’m going to be ignored on our day. It’s mostly FI’s friends and family. His family (with a few significant exceptions) is very cold to me.
Another fear is makeup will be all wrong and photos will look bad. My skin is really breakout prone and I haven’t found a good way to clear it. Im aso worried that my foundation isn’t going to look right and the photos will be ruined. I’m trying to do a lot of work on my skin and trying a lot of makeup to find a perfect match.
Post # 10
I keep worrying that some of the guests we paid for won’t make the ship on time…
I also keep worrying that they won’t bring the proper travel documents (certified birth certificates, passports, unexpired driver’s licenses) and by the time we figure it out, it’ll be too late.
Post # 11
I’m afraid Aunt Flow will be a guest at the wedding. I have PCOS, so I never really know the date she comes.
Post # 12
my irrational fear is that my FH will leave me hanging! he’s been engaged before and then they broke up…. and although he’s assured me a million times, i’m still scared he will not show up the day of the wedding!
Post # 13
I have a few….No one will show up, something will get on my dress, I’ll hear screaming children all day aaand my guests will be rude.