(Closed) Irritate about argument with FH

posted 5 years ago in Relationships
Post # 3
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: June 2014

I think it’s within your right to keep the plans as they are. He knew what you intended to do, and he decided he didn’t want to do it too. While you are a couple, you don’t have to do every little thing together, and doing soemthing without the other doesn’t mean that you don’t want to see them, it just means you have something you need to do and they don’t have to/want to come along.

Post # 4
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: September 2014

@iadornyou:  No, you should keep your plan: you gave him AMPLE time to give you an answer.

Post # 6
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: September 2014

@iadornyou:  Girl, it’s such a silly (no offense meant at all) fight I wouldnt even waste any more breath on it: HE messed up and I think he knows it.  I think if you bring it up again he’s just going to get more defensive.  I’d let it ride, and hopefully he has learned a lesson in being considerate!

Post # 8
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859 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: November 2018

@iadornyou:

Let him be mad.  You made plans and you shouldn’t have to cancel them to wait at home while he’s working.  I realize you’d probably see him for a bit but you would still have to wait at home while he was helping his friend.

Post # 9
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: November 2011

I say keep your original plans, he’ll learn his lesson and maybe he wont do it again, and if he starts flaking again, you can remind him about this incident.

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