(Closed) Irritated. And feel bad for it.

posted 8 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
1697 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

Aw I’m sorry hun! I know when my DH and i first got engaged he had been out of work for 6 months and was out of work for 6 more after that. I totally know how you feel. it became frustrating over time to pay almost all the bills. I had my moments too and felt awful. It was a year of stress and after he finally found a great job i was SO relived and it was like it had never happened. I strongly feel that we grew SO much over those months. It was like a crash course really and a good one. Look at the light at the end of the tunnel and count your blessings 🙂 that’s what helped me. Love to you!

Post # 5
406 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: May 2013

I am so so sorry. Your situation is so difficult. Hugs to you. I wish I had advice for you. 

Post # 6
1826 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: December 2013

I’m so sorry to hear about this and can completely empathize. My ex was also in a motorcycle accident when we had only been married or 2 years. He was out of work for 4 and still more after for multiple surgeries. It felt horrible to be in that limbo for so long…court cases,insurance companies, me working full time and paying the bills as well.

But I can tell you this…it will finally end. Try to focus on one day at a time. As for getting engaged and buying rings, I think you should tell him exactly how you feel.

Post # 7
490 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: January 2016

I can understand that you would be upset.  I have had a lot of things come up and I just want to be married eventually too.  I wouldn’t consider you sounding selfish, more like coming here to let out your frustrations. Smile  I can’t give you a lot of advice, but I do hope you get some time to relax.  If nothing else, it will make you a stronger person.

Post # 11
123 posts
Blushing bee

Your Fiance sounds absolutely amazing!  I’m glad you two can communicate so well and can problem solve together.

I’m apparently the same as you and my husband is the same as your Fiance.  There will be times when I sit DH down and say something along the lines of, “I have to tell you what I’m feeling.  It may not make sense, it might actually be a bit irrational and logically I know that but I’m still feeling it nonetheless so please bear with me while I vent”.  After we get in a tiff (small or large) we both apologize for being jerkfaces (even if we weren’t) because we hate fighting and realize we’re both to blame for most situations.

Reading your update made me smile.  🙂

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