(Closed) Is “no problem” a rude response to “thank you”?

posted 7 years ago in The Lounge
Post # 3
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Busy Beekeeper

YES!!!!  It’s been a pet peeve ever since I started paying attention to it.  Honestly, I think it’s an answer we give without really thinking about we are saying… like an auto-response of sorts.  Even though it makes me cringe, I try to take it with a grain of salt and try to remember the intention behind the words “no problem’ is one of being amicable.  But it seriously drives me crazy!!

ETA:  I’ve been guilty of it too 🙂

Other good responses, IMO:  Of course or Absolutely

Post # 4
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: August 2011

Aw man 🙁

I ALWAYS say no problem! I rarely every say you’re welcome or my pleasure.

I never thought it bothered anyone. 

Post # 4
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Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

It irritates me, but unless I was someone’s manager, I would not raise the subject.

It comes off as a bit dismissive of the other person’s genuine “thank-you”.

Post # 4
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: April 2012

wow I really never considered that.  I do however hate it when someone says ‘of course’ in response to ‘thank you’.  It’s like- no- it’s not of course, you did something and I’m thanking you for a reason!!!

Post # 5
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

I never thought about it until in server training at the Olive Garden, they told us that “no problem” implies that there is a problem. It was a weird habit for me to break, but I started saying “You got it!” super cheesily instead… gotta work those tips! 🙂

Post # 6
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

I honestly see nothing wrong with no problem. It is not a problem for me to go out of my way to do something for you. Perhaps I should say it’s not a problem from now on, would that be less likely to offend?

Post # 7
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Blushing bee

I agree it’s grating, but I try to go with folks’ intent.

Post # 8
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Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: September 2010

I don’t think it’s rude at all. In fact, when someone gives me a really genuine thank you, sometimes I want to emphasize that it wasn’t a problem and they don’t need to be so grateful!

Post # 10
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

@sailor: my first response to your boss would have been “if it’s my job, then why are you thanking me in the first place? it’s not like i’m doing you a favor.” (i understand what it means to be polite and i would and do thank others for doing their job, but berating someone in public for not having a polite enough response is pretty lame!). i don’t get my panties in a wad over that kind of thing, obviously, i think it’s all about tone though. people around here respond with “you’re welcome” but sometimes their tone makes it seem like they just moved the pyramids for you or something! if someone says “no problem” with a genuine smile, i wouldn’t bat an eye. it’s semantics – the meaning is still there.

Post # 10
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: August 2010

Wow I never thought “no problem” is a bad response to thank you. I never said it in regards to a work enviornment because I don’t work in an environment where I “have” to do anything for anybody except myself. 

When I use it I usually say “no worries” and I am saying it to indicate that whatever I did for you that you are thanking for did not put me out and I was happy to do it for you!

I probably won’t stop saying it but it is good to know that it does offend some!

Post # 11
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Honey bee

Yes because it makes it sound like you don’t care about their ‘thank you’.

Post # 12
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

I think I’m one of the few that say you’re welcome at work, many of my co-workers says no problems. It never bother me.

Post # 13
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: December 2010

I have to say that when I thank someone, it is sometimes a little annoying when someone says “no problem.” It does feel as though the person is dismissing my thank you. A simple “you’re welcome” is sufficient. 

Although, I would say that attorney was out of line berating a secretary for saying “no problem” when others could hear. I’m sure she didn’t mean any disrespect, just as I’m sure others don’t mean any disrespect when they say it. I also wouldn’t expect anyone in a work situation to say “my pleasure” in response to “thank you”, that’s expecting a little much. I don’t think “my pleasure” is any more appropriate than “no problem.” 

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