Post # 1
So, my question is to all of you ladies that are already married and planned their own wedding…do you think one year is enough time to plan a wedding? My fiance wants to get married October 2016 but I’m concerned it might not be enough time? I think if I work hard on it throughout the year I should be able to accomplish it, but I’m just worried I’ll be pushing it too much.
Any advice would be great! Thanks ladies!!
Post # 2
I think it’s heaps of time. I guess it depends what you’re planning on doing, but I know alot of people who were engaged for less than a year. It might also depend on when venues/photographers book up in your area.
Post # 3
I heard somewhere the average length is 10 months, so a year is above average and definitely plenty of time to plan a wedding.
The real question is do you have your heart set on certain vendors or venues that might have already booked up? If that’s the case it may be harder.
Post # 4
That’s more than enough time. I planned mine in 9 months and had plenty of time.
Post # 5
Loads of time, I am planning mine in 9 months, and there are so many things I can’t even solidify until the new year (6 months ahead)
Post # 6
I had about 11 months, and I found myself ignoring my wedding for about 6 months
Post # 7
- Wedding: May 2014 - hallockville museum farm
We got engaged on our 5 year anniversary but 3 months later we found out he was getting a job 2 states away. We were engaged for 6 months when we got married. So we only had 3 months to plan but we got it done and had the wedding of our dreams. So 1 year is deff more than enough time!!
Post # 8
pink8190: It depends on where you live, how high end your wedding will be, and if you are willing to be flexible on certain vendors. My gown took a solid 10 months to come in from when it was ordered, then alterations took another 2-3 months. We booked our photo/video 18 months in advance along with most of our other vendors since we had specific vendors we wanted. If you are willing to compromise on things and don’t care for certain designers/brands/companies then you should be fine.
Anyone I know who had a one year engagement were crazy stressed for the entire year and raced to book every single vendor as soon as they got engaged, which also meant shelling out tons of $$$ within a month of engagement (venue deposit 5k, photo/video deposit $1,500, limo $500, DJ $1,800, etc)
Post # 9
pink8190: we began planning 13 months before our wedding date. It’s plenty of time if you have the money to pay for everything!
Post # 10
We did ours in 13-14 months and i felt like i had a big gap between starting planning and the actual day so a year should be more than enough, depending on what venue you want and how quickly they get booked up
Post # 11
WhatMaeBee: This. We are having an October 2016 wedding and have been engaged since May. We already have most of our big vendors booked, and I imagine if all of our vendors were still available, I could’ve planned the whole thing in 3 or 4 months. However, there were already a lot of places that had some weekends booked up for next fall when we booked in May and, obviously, we booked early too. I would contact some of the venues you might like and see what their availability looks like. A year to me is ideal, but we wanted a fall wedding and spring 2016 was already completely booked when we got engaged.
Post # 12
We originally wanted a one year engagement, but once we started looking, most vendors and venues were already getting booked out into 2017. So, saying that, we pushed to two years and now we have all of the elements and vendors we wanted without feeling rushed. Now, just under a year out, we are in a lull where we just have a few finishing touches. But, saying that, every area is different. New England in early fall is popular where as other areas of the country, it’s possible to plan in far under a year.
Post # 13
A year is more then enough time.
Post # 14
- Wedding: August 2017 - Sea Cider
I’ll jump in and sound off with the others: if you want first pick of vendors, and time to save money, then no, it’s not enough time. I’m just under 2 years to go on my engagement, and we’ve got our photographer, venue, stationary, and caterer picked out. I’m trying to decide how soon I want to start talking to florists. . .my area is very popular for a summer destination wedding.
on the other hand, I have a friend who planned her wedding in 8 months. she THRIVES under high stress, though.
Post # 15
I am 3.5 months into a 7 month engagement. Started getting restless a while ago….just happen already!!!