(Closed) Is a first kiss more significant?

posted 8 years ago in Relationships
  • poll: What is more significant to you in your relationship with FI?

    First Kiss

    First time having sex

    First time having sex will be when we do it

    other, explained below

    I think both are equally significant.

  • Post # 17
    529 posts
    Busy bee

    I remember everything with my SO which for me is really significant. With my ex husband I didn’t remember our first anything even when we were together. In my relationship with my SO everything was just so right and I do remember every detail. I think the first kiss was important emotionally and our first time having sex was important because it moved us into a more intimate relationship. I think that first kiss was when I really started to fall in love. 

    Post # 18
    5009 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: April 2012

    I asked DH for his opinion, but he still doesn’t remember our first kiss… so his answer is made for him by default!

    Post # 19
    872 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: August 2010

    I’d say our first kiss was more special because we didn’t have sex until we were married so I already knew it was going to work out, lol.  The first kiss was that chilling, “Wow, this guy likes me and this is real” kind of feeling.  I mean, I remember our first time having sex, but our first kiss has more emotion tied to it.

    Post # 20
    1297 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: November 1999

    I guess they were significant in different ways. Our first kiss was amazing and sweet, but we waited a long. dang. time to have sex (til the wedding night) so that was special as well. I cherish both memories very much.

    Post # 21
    686 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: October 2016

    Omg, we were on our first date, got tipsy and just pushed him towards a wall and kissed him. 

    Our first kiss. LOL. I think he got the point that was inlove with him. 😀

    Post # 22
    84 posts
    Worker bee
    • Wedding: June 2014

    Unfortunately, I can’t say either. I met Fiance on the night of my friend’s 21st birthday. It was the first night I had ever been drunk, and the first and only time I had ever taken a guy home for a “one night stand” that I never intended on. I ended up meeting him five drinks in. So, I couldn’t really recall either one all too well. Tongue Out

    Post # 23
    1551 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: June 2010

    I would like to say the first time we had sex was more significant, but the first kiss was also very significant.  My husband and I were friends for years, so when he kissed me that first time, I knew immediately that our entire relationship had changed forever.  There would be no going back to just being friends.  I knew him well enough to know that he’d not do that with me unless his intentions were very serious…and they were!


    Post # 24
    646 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: April 2014

    for us, both were equally significant. second thing happened one month after first. 🙂

    Post # 25
    533 posts
    Busy bee

    Well, our first kiss was about 15mins before we had sex sooo… We had issues with sex though, been a while for me. I remember the first time it worked and it was incredible. 

    Post # 26
    1486 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: October 2010

    Yeah, us too.  First kiss ~20 minutes before the first time we had sex.  The whole experience was pretty memorable!  And we had only known each other in person (met online) for about 8 hours.

    Maybe need to revise that story before I tell it to the kids.

    Post # 27
    1430 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: April 2015

    For me the first time I saw him in person was the most significant out of anything. I mean don’t get me wrong I love kissing him and having sex with him. But when I looked into his blue/grey eyes I melted and knew that I could stop looking for Mr. Right because he was in front of me.


    ETA: We had sex a few hours after our first kiss and making out with each other (we met online and had been talking to each other for about 3 months at that point). It wasn’t my first time, but it was his first real kiss and first time having sex. So it was pretty memorable as well.

    Post # 28
    194 posts
    Blushing bee

    Aw man, I love reading these stories!  I would say that both were very significant for us — we had been neighbors/friends for 10 years before we dated.  When he kissed me for the first time it was ELECTRIC, and I knew he was absolutely the man I wanted to be with.  He also blurted out that he loved me (for the first time) right after he kissed me, so that really meant alot.

    Our first time sleeping together was our wedding night, which was also very intimate and emotionally charged…sigh, both memories are incredibly special to me.

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