(Closed) Is a small diamond okay for e-ring? Show me yours!

posted 9 years ago in Rings
Post # 57
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: December 2012

of COURSE it’s ok to have a small ring! no matter the size of the ring, the promise is still the same. the promise to get married and spend your whole lives together!

here’s mine at 0.5 carats:


I find it plenty big! and even if it was smaller, I’d still find that it satisfies all the requirements of an engagement ring. you know, being 1) from your beloved, 2) on your finger, and 3) pretty!

Post # 59
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: August 2012

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@yzfyvr bride:  Wow you are way up there! I’m fascinated!

 

 And of course any size is ok!

Post # 60
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Worker bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

Here’s an idea to save money now and still have an impressive ring: Go ahead and get a small diamond solitaire now (say, a .4 or something). In a few years when you’re more established as a couple add a new, larger stone (.8) as well as another .4 to give it a larger center stone and a larger overall ring!

Post # 61
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: April 2013

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@claireos:  <– this. There are no rules about erings. It’s a symbol of your love and commitment to each other and it can be what ever you want it to be 🙂

 

Post # 62
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Newbee
  • Wedding: September 2014

YES a “smaller” e ring is okay! But be prepared for the comments. Some people feel the need to make other women feel bad for not sporting a giant rock. My tips? Consider the width of your finger in comparision to the diamond, not the actual carat. And ofcourse, sparkle factor is paramount to me!

After many hurtful comments from my family, I am still proud of my 1/2 carat, canadian diamond! This is excellent cut and D color. It sparkles like crazy!!I am a size 7 but my hands are very slender, I found this to be my perfect carat weight. 

I don’t feel like .5 is small, especially when you consider the price point…Diamonds are INSANELY overpriced!!!

 

Post # 63
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: August 2013 - An amazing non-profit retreat

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@blueandcream:  

 

It is beautiful and classy!

Post # 64
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: August 2013

Any size diamond is gorgeous!

if it’s good quality (which is easier with a small diamond) it will sparkle like crazy regardless. 

Mine when we bought it was a .5 ct center stone but it had visible inclusions (they told me it was SI2 but I really think it was I1 clarity) so I traded it in for the Leo (fancy cut) nice quality .45 diamond.  I know its basically the same from .45 to .5 but I still feel a little sad about going smaller BUT like I said, the quality will make it look sooo much nicer. 

I will say, admire the .5 ct threads… the bigass rings still make me jealous/insecure/sad at times, regardless of how much I love my ring.  I actually can’t even believe my Fiance spent more than 3 mo’s pay on it but he doesn’t make that much but still wants to give me everything he thinks I deserve haha.

At the end of the day, whatever ring YOU love is the right one for you, as I’m sure everyone else will tell you.  You can always upgrade the diamond later if decide you want to and have the $$ to do so. 

ETA: My Future Sister-In-Law just got engaged with a very simple, small (maybe .25?) diamond solitaire ring.  Although my first instinct was aww that’s cute, I know she is so genuinely happy with it and in love that it doesn’t matter at all that she and her Fiance can’t afford a huge rock, or even a fancy ring like my Fiance was able to get me. 

Post # 65
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2013

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@hyperJulie:  Thanks! I think that’s why Fiance picked it, almost everyone I know told me that it was “very me!” :]

Post # 66
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2013

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@patchy:  I love your ring! I love the band, it looks so great on you!

Post # 67
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: August 2013

This is how my ring was (.5ct center stone, sz 7.25 finger) – can’t wait to post the updated version! — sorry I still can’t make pics shrink

Post # 68
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2013

Mine is .41, G color, SI2 and my finger is a size 4, so it looks bigger on me. I love it!

Post # 69
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2013

This is the ring that I plan to propose with next week.  It’s a .34c center stone.  With the diamonds on the side it brings the total up to .5c She requested a small stone so I tried to pick out a nice one.  Its an ideal cut, E color VS2.

 

Post # 70
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Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: December 2010

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@lybarra:  That ring is gorgeous! When you do ask her, make sure you tell her about weddingbee so she can join! 🙂

Post # 71
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: August 2013 - An amazing non-profit retreat

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@lybarra:  

 

It is beautiful!!

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