Post # 61
You’re entitled to your opinion, I’m entitled to mine. I refuse to be a cynic and negative thinker. I personally haven’t seen her mention anything abusive and didn’t see any post you’re referring to. I’m making my own opinion based on the facts I’ve seen.
No need to be so upset by someone else’s relationship is there? Or is it more indicative of your own past?
Post # 62
I , the OP, don’t even know what terrible past history with MY boyfriend you are talking about. If you are referring the my only other post which was him not wanting me to wear my ring to work, then go read it again. He was worried about me damaging it. We have both agreed that he won’t keep me from wearing it at work. So what other negative and horrible things are you talking about that is apparently making my relationship so insecure and unhappy? I would genuinely like to know.
This post was simply about me trying to contain my excitement and wanting to know how to chill out while waiting. I’m not sure why you are arguing with me on the meaning of MY POST.
Post # 63
Well this is the second time you’ve created a thread about your relationship that has a disturbing title. Your previous thread had this title: He won’t let me wear my ring at work. Really upset!
Your initial posts in both threads are also pretty grim; you sound upset and distressed about your relationship in both. Then the bees react to that, and you come back, backpedal significantly, add in new info to make the situation sound less bleak, and then get extremely defensive of your relationship.
For your sake I hope your backpedaling updates are truthful and that all will end well for you in this relationship. Good luck.
Post # 64
sure I get upset sometimes but that doesn’t mean I don’t love him. Don’t you ever get upset with your partner? Sometimes when I am upset I like to come here for second opinions but I don’t think that should mean that I am necessarily in a distressed bad relationship. And I certainly don’t feel that I was coming off that way. I was just having a disagreement on something with him so I came here
Post # 65
When I read the title I thought you meant like bugging his phone with a location and/or keystroke and/or voice tracker
So really anything you do at this point is a win from my pov :p
Post # 66
Don’t engage when he brings it up. That just not nice of him. If he keeps pestering make a deal with him that if you can’t talk about it, neither can he. He’s not the boss of you, so if he wants you to stop something to stop that is very difficult for you, he needs to not make it worse. Then, once that is all settled, bask in the glow of not being engaged yet, because as soon as you are you’ll get all the questions from everyone. Wedding dates, wedding colors, am I invited, are you pregnant, when are you going to have babies. It’s obnoxious.
Post # 67
I have no idea where you got the idea of ‘abusive’ from , not do I understand the strange reference to getting upset about someone else’s relationship, which you then go on to attribute to a supposed abusive relationship of mine. I haven’t actually ever had one , but if I had, your baiting reference would have been, shall we say, insensitive to a high degree. As it is, it is merely inapproriate.
I’m just going off your posting record OP. If you are happier and more secure than it suggests I am sincerely glad for you.