(Closed) Is anybody NOT completely open with FI? Bodily function wise?

posted 7 years ago in Relationships
Post # 92
831 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: Either Philadelphia City Hall or a small chapel.

Like, if we need to get in the bathroom go ahead but, neither of us leave the door open or anything. He farts and burps in front of me when he is home, but, I don’t think it’s a big deal and he atleast excuses himself. I rarely do because I’m not a gassy person in general.


He’s thrown up in front of me once, but, it wasn’t intended. He just was feeling sick to his stomach all day and finally decided to try to eat a little…came back up right after when we were laying together. No biggie, though. Cleaned it up and went to go check on him in the bathroom. It happens.


Post # 93
190 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: June 2015

He is never to fart in front of me, nor would I ever do such a thing in front of him. I consider myself some what of an old soul, so doing such an “unlady-like” thing would probably kill me lol 


Post # 94
114 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: November 2012

My hubbie wishes I wasn’t so open haha. I have IBS aka a really sensitive tummy it really hard to be discrete when nearly every food group makes you suffer. :/

Post # 95
470 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: February 2014

We fart in front of each other (I think I would explode if I didn’t) … But other than that, most of the stuff is kept to ourselves. He doesn’t care so much, it’s me putting up the boundaries (I don’t really care either, I just prefer the privacy). That being said, we’ve both seen each other pee. And we’ve both suffered through the stomach flu together twice in the past two years (damn nieces and nephews – germ mongers!) … So there’s not really that much mystery left. 

Post # 96
336 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: November 2014

I’ve been with my Fiance for a total of 6 years, been living together for 2 years.. The ONLY thing I feel comfortable doing in front of him is burping. Thats pretty much it… 

Post # 97
3355 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

Darling Husband and I are completely open with each other, but I think the one thing I insist on is if we’re going number 2, shut the damn door!

Post # 98
1002 posts
Bumble bee

I won’t fart in front of him, but I’ll pee in front of him (go figure).  He seems to feel the same way about that (at least, he tries to avoid farting around me).  And we both say, “I need to contemplate,” when we have to go poop.  Not sure why, it’s just something we started doing.  But other than that, there’s not a whole lot.  We even shower together sometimes, to save time/water.  And we have sex when Aunt Flo is visiting, so no, we’re not shy about period stuff (though I don’t generally change tampons or the like in front of him).

Post # 99
3245 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2015

@SadMrsToBe:  I’m more similar to you. We don’t intentionally burp or fart around each other, and would never go to the bathroom with the door open or anything like that. We always close the bathroom door to pee, even. 


There is some discussion of digestive health, etc., and if one of us makes a big stink, the other will complain, but mostly we are both grossed out and turned off by oversharing of bodily functions!

Post # 100
166 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

known my fiancé for 5 years. we do everything together. I had to poop one time and wanted company in the bathroom and he stood there with me, even while I wiped. we have farting contests, and I hope its not Too Much Information, but he’s helped with my tampons. only cause he’s a guy and a tampon is one contraption they don’t know how it works so I demonstrated. what if you’re in the middle of a movie, snuggling up, and you have to let out a fart? 

Post # 101
2831 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2014

I’ll burp in front of him. But that’s about it. I won’t toot in his presence unless i’m asleep of course LOL. He has absolutely NO problem doing anything and everything in front of me :/

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