(Closed) Is anyone actually ENJOYING sex while TTC?

posted 6 years ago in TTC
  • poll: Do you like sex when TTC
    YEP, every moment of it : (39 votes)
    42 %
    Sometimes : (45 votes)
    49 %
    NO WAY... TTC has taken the fun out of sex : (8 votes)
    9 %
  • Post # 3
    485 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: December 2012

    THAT is funny!!!!!!  I used to naturally be a 2-3 x a week kind a gal.  But last month we religiously BD every other day from the day my period ended and after a while I was “oh my…. this is a LOT of sex”.  how do people do this?????


    Post # 4
    2196 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: June 2011

    LOL I totally thought about posting a very similar thread!!

    Meh, sometimes yes sometimes no. There are days I am tired and would love to just SLEEP, but dont’ want to miss the EOD routine just in case. I voted “sometimes”. lol.

    Post # 5
    8882 posts
    Buzzing Beekeeper

    I’m loving every minute. We do it every day anyway, so it’s not that hard for us. Guess I’m super lucky.

    Post # 6
    923 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: January 2013

    I said sometimes.  My sex drive during certain parts of the month has definately increased since going off the pill, but it does start to get old after awhile. 

    Post # 8
    2263 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: June 2013

    We BD’s every day for the whole cycle I got pregnant. It was… tiring… lol. In some ways I’m glad we don’t have to do it again this month. O.o I enjoyed it once or twice but mostly it was… ugh, I’m so tired….. do we have to? 

    Post # 10
    2539 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: March 2012

    Homestly… its hard for me to get in the mood but once I’m there, I’m a monster!!! LOL!

    Post # 12
    4663 posts
    Honey bee
    • Wedding: December 2011

    @SimplyChic11: every day!? i’m in awe of you girl!

    Too Much Information, but I get sore if we do it too many days in a row.

    Also, i dont think it’s as good for him as if we have a break in between and we start to miss it again.

    Post # 13
    1190 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: August 2012

    This month was tiring mainly because there was no spontinaity to it. We knew we had to do it that day so we did it. So i said sometimes. At the beginning of the week it was fun – by the end it was just routine.

    Post # 14
    4355 posts
    Honey bee
    • Wedding: June 2013

    I never got the chance to know this feeling, Darling Husband would have loved that. We literally did it twice around my fertile time on our first TTC cycle and I got pregnant. And now I’m tired, nauseous or bloated so I rarely want to do it. Poor Darling Husband thought TTC meant he was going to get it so often, which it would have if his sperm wasn’t so damn efficient lol.

    You’ll all get a break once you get your BFP shows up and you want to sleep almost all the time and only want your Darling Husband around you if he’s giving you a back massage lol.

    Post # 15
    588 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: November 2007 - Radisson Hotel

    Yeah… no. We’ve been together nine years, married for five, with a three year old. No. We also deal with my husband’s low drive, so TTC is the most stressful thing I currently deal with.

    ETA: We’re working up to our 10th cycle ttc, so it has been forever.

    Post # 16
    4150 posts
    Honey bee
    • Wedding: November 1999

    I really enjoy it at the beginning of my fertile time.  By day 4 though, I’m a bit over it.  And the worst is if we’re trying to squeeze BD time into a hectic schedule, so it feels like we’re doing it because we have to. 

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