Post # 1
Little goofy question I know! But basically, whenever I see a woman who’s hired as a go go dancer, or some kind of female entertainer at a party or event, I get a little jealous. I don’t really mind seeing pretty women (and I certainly don’t think I’m that pretty) but since I spend a lot of time focusing on my body and fitness, I get a little jealous when I see a woman with a better body than me.
I know this sounds really arrogant- it’s not like I’m surprised anyone else has a better body. But since my face isn’t anything special, the only thing truly physically attractive about me is my body. I know this is so dumb and irrational, but I can’t possibly be the only one who feels this way!
For example, I’m pretty fit but because I’m thin I don’t have huge boobs. When I see skinny girls with ENORMOUS boobs I get so jealous…like WHYYY must they have this and I don’t? lol
Post # 3
I’m going to say generally, and there ARE exceptions to this. Most thin girls, don’t naturally have “ENORMOUS” busts. Just because they have a lower body fat %.. A lot more ladies then you’d think have probably had work done..
And there’s nothing wrong with that, it just is what it is.
Just be happy with what you have 🙂
ETA: But I do feel the same as you, except I wish I’d just have a smaller stature, I’m pretty big-boned.. Its tough to find clothes when you have a broad shoulders and a long torso! lol Not to mention my awkward size 10.5 feet! I’d love to be a size 7 shoe! haha
Post # 4
@embarrassed99: Nope, I like my body best at about 215 lbs, or a size 16.
There is nothing wrong with getting implants! 🙂
Post # 5
I so know what you are talking about! BUT, I do not have a good body at all, and think I have a nice face, so since I’m trying and (have been my entire life) to lose weight, I get jealous when I see women with good bodies because I feel like it’s something I will never attain so therefore I am jealous. Plus I don’t ever feel like those women truly appreciate what they have and how it is literally a lifelong struggle for some women.
Post # 6
Same here, I cry a little inside. lol Most of the girls who are skinny with big boobs usally have implants. lol
Post # 7
In a way yes…only because I would be at that fitness level that I want to be at and “maintaining”, rather than having to shed the endless amounts of pounds to get there.
Post # 8
Only the skinny chicks with a metabolism of a 5 yr old. WANT.
Post # 9
This might sound weird, lol, but there is this girl at my gym who legit has the best body I have ever seen in real life…everytime I see her I end up going on the treadmill for longer in an effort to look that good 😛
Post # 10
@embarrassed99: NOPE….she may be thinner, have bigger boobs or flatter abs….I’m the ONLY person who looks like me.
Post # 11
I do! I am thin, but I am not toned at all and so I have a belly – people say I don’t but it is definitley not flat to me!! It drives me crazy when I see girls with the whole package (hair, face, body and personality). My ideal body is this … womanly but toned and sexy. Never going to get it so TRYING to be happy with what I got haha.
Post # 12
@sara_tiara: I’m with you! I guess I get a little wistful perhaps (?) when I see someone with a bangin’ body, but it really just makes me want to work harder at achieving my own personal best. I’m barely scraping 5’1, so seeing women with long, slender legs, I’m just like, well that’s never gonna happen.
OP, being thin and having small boobs means you can wear all those awesome tops and dresses that can’t be worn with a bra! Lucky.
Post # 13
I have also just remembered something I read about 8 years ago in a magazine. They were interviewing regular boys in the high st (I can’t remember what for, something to do with girl’s looks) and one reply was that his gf once said “I have the best bum in the world” and he said “I looked and thought ‘yes you do’ and now no girl ever measures up”. So I think we all need a little confidence in our good bits! It could be our self fulfilling proficy
Post # 14
Nope. I think I may have had these feelings when I was in my early twenties. Ironically my body was much better back then than it is now that I’m 40. But I love my body now. I think its super cute, even though I’m a size 10 and not a size 2 anymore. All those “perfect” bodies will change with time. 🙂
Post # 15
Yeep. I totally am. I want that slender perfect body, but laziness overcomes that want.
Post # 16
Ugh I’m constantly jealous of women who have nicer bodies or prettier faces than me. I think it just comes from having low self-esteem when it comes to my looks. I try to boost my esteem by working out, eating right, dressing well, and wearing makeup but I don’t think I’ll ever get over that inner voice that tells me that I’m not beautiful.